Your Teen in shutdown mode

Most teens want to say, My parents listened to me they heard me and they valued me. For your kid to say that, I'd say you are moving toward parenting perfection. ¨All teens want to do is talk and have someone listen to them. If they share what is on their heart, and that is missed, they eventually quit sharing altogether. ¨If your teen is in shutdown mode, it may be because you aren't listening. So share your desire to become a better listener. Find regular opportunities to talk, even if they feel a bit forced at first. Eventually, with diligence on your part, your teen will again open up and trust her dreams, thoughts and questions with you.